Francis Van Lare, a Nigerian living in the US, discusses the importance of the title “man of the house,” which he relates to the ability to give one’s wife a cash present of N500,000.

Amara Blessing Nwosu, the businessman whose marriage to a well-known relationship expert ended in divorce, offered his advice on how to make a great husband.

Francis Van-Lare claimed in a post on his Facebook page that a man must be able to provide N500K at a time for his wife in order to be entitled, the head of the house.

“You are not a man of the house if your woman asks you N500K and you don’t have it. Men are supposed to be the pillar not the pillow,” he wrote.

Meanwhile, Francis Van-Lare believes it is unethical to tell a guy that his manhood is weak or that he cannot deliver only to hurt him.

According to him, it is not the proper way to address the matter when the woman begins to accuse the man of not functioning properly in bed.

He cited an example of how his ex-wife came at him with such accusations that caused him to verify the claim with another lady.

Taking to his Facebook page, hjis post read: “Sometimes negative things said about you is your tonic to get up an excel to prove them wrong . One lady I was once married to could not find anything her mouth could spit out to shake my confidence in the middle of a heated argument so she resulted to personal attacks,” he wrote.

She said my gbola was weak and could not perform and all the orgasms she has been exhibiting were fake just to make me feel good . Instead of allowing that statement to dampen my spirit which was her intent , I called up a babe that has been chatting me up and I have not paid attention to her to meet me . My gbola and her kpekus connected wella and she had 9 orgasms that is not faked

“So when the so called wife repeated the statement again I was grinning ear to ear as I have my independent tester to prove her wrong and in the meantime denied her my gbola. She can go and find her own Mandingo not me . Never tell a man that his gbola is weak or cannot perform to spite him . Another woman will give same gbola an Oscar performance.”

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