Relationship expert Lara Kudayisi, who was included in a list of trends after admitting to having 15 abortions and being discarded seven days after the last one, has stated that she no longer harbors resentment or hurt against the men who forced her to undergo the procedure.

This was revealed by Lara during an interview with Punch. The relationship expert, who is currently a single mother, claimed that she shared her experience so that others may benefit.

She added that because she is no longer the person who performed those abortions, the stigma she has experienced since sharing her story is irrelevant.

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Lara said;

“All those things do not matter to me because I know what I am doing and I have healed. It does not define me because it is my past. I am no longer the person that did those abortions. So, criticisms about my past life do not get to me.

“One does not need to go to people to find closure. That is what I teach people in the therapy program I run. Closure is what you get by yourself. I have gone through years of therapy and I have got closure with all the men I was involved with. That helped me to heal and be able to talk about my story. I do not harbour any anger or hurt anymore and it is all part of my journey.”

This is what she had to say on whether the abortions she had in the past contributed to th

“I went public with my abortion story even before I got married. My ex-husband met me sharing my abortion story, which was what attracted him to me. My marriage had nothing to do with my past and this was the inspiration behind my book, ‘Why the Matchmaker’s Marriage Failed’.”

Lara also revealed that she would be remarrying soon and have no trust issues due to her past. She added;

“I trust men a lot and I will be remarrying soon. What makes one not to trust men after heartbreak is because one has not healed. One has to pursue healing because it is very important. When one has healed, the kind of people one will attract and have a relationship with will be very different, and there will be nothing to fear anymore. Therapy is a life saver but a lot of people do not know that.”

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